I am only 25 and I had already been married and divorced. I had a wond

I am only 25 and I had already been married and divorced. I had a wonderful marriage with my wife right up until I found out that she was cheating on me. I was heartbroken, crushed, and completely devastated. I could not believe the lovable, beautiful woman that I married just two years ago, would go and betray me like that. When I was out of high school and had a good marketing job, I thought about going out and dating women, but it wasn't for me. I was more of a workaholic then anything. Sure I wanted to get out there and meet someone, but my career was keeping me more that busy, I just didn't have the time to start dating.

All my high school buddies were out dating women and having a good time, and here I was stuck at the office way after the workday was over. I though at times what the heck was the matter with me. I like to have fun and dating women did sound fun, but I guess you could say that I was a little more than just shy. I was always told that I had a soft heart, that I was a very compassionate person, that should date someone that was good to me. I was always to shy to walk up to a women and ask her out. Even if I knew her well, I just couldn't make myself do it.

That is when one of my friends had suggested that I take it at my own pace to meet the right women.And a perfect way to do that was to look into online dating. I could sit in the privacy of my own home and look at the profiles that would interest me. There was no face-to-face contact with the person until I was absolutely comfortable with it. I thought to myself that this could actually work. I could take my time to meet the person that I wanted to date and it wouldn't interfere with my work schedule. I could do it in my spare time away from work. Or if I wanted to be a little sneaky, I could peek at the profiles from time to time while at work. But I would have to make sure that I didn't get caught while doing that. So dating women wasn't going to be a bad experience after all.